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    Gardening begins at 40 – I’m 67 now


    February 2nd, 2019 - Tips and inspiration

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    Gardening? one big yawn

    I had no interest in gardening even though my grandmother was a farmer’s wife and my mother loved her big shrubby suburban garden.  I was more interested in snogging in the bushes than pruning them.

    But the gardening bug hit me when I reached 40 yrs old.

    Some time later, it’s now my 67th birthday today and here is a very short story of my gardening life through six decades.

    six on Saturday

    Mum and me picking peas in Irish Granny’s kitchen garden – 1950s

    Childhood memories

    Childhood – Irish farming grandparents;  rose-tinted memories of the smell of tomatoes in a greenhouse, shelling fresh peas and eating ripe strawberries. But then…..

    Six on saturday

    School friends getting ready for a party

    Teenage years – Chasing schoolboys round Woolworths or sulking in my bedroom listening to pirate radio so zero interest in horticulture as I recall. It gets worse.

    parties, disco, friends, late nights

    Everything looks wonky

    Twenties – Late night takeaways and cheap clothing so interest in horticulture definitely  less than zero.  I’m in the pile on the sofa on the left wearing pink disco pants.

    Thirties – Married and living in a flat.  Tried a window box of petunias.  Rather excited when they bloomed.  Can’t find any pics though.

    Gardening begins to take hold

    Then I visited East Lambrook Manor Gardens in Somerset and something clicked. I felt I was in Heaven.

    Six on Saturday

    One of the original cottage gardens, East Lambrook Manor in Somerset

    Gardening in my own garden begins

    Forties – Moved to a terraced house with a garden and fell in love with Geoff Hamilton AND Dan Pearson .  Both doomed to be unrequited relationships.  Got the gardening bug,  planted spring bulbs and began to go gardening mad.  They say when a woman hits 40 it’s God or gardening.  Phew.

    Cottage garden plants spring bulbs tulips container gardening

    What I created in our back garden

    Fifties – Totally gardening mad, outdoors in every spare moment, read about gardening,  watched TV gardening , visited gardens, went to Chelsea, hung around garden centres, fell in love with soil.

    You can see more of the changes I have made over 30 years here 

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    Sixties – Monty Don this time. Discovered internet nurseries, started this gardening blog, enjoying wildlife and the joys of growing things, sitting in the garden with a coffee and a magazine.

    front gardens cottage gardening town garden

    Pottering wearing my favourite kind of clothes

    Have had a patch on an allotment now for 4 weeks. Dreaming of rhubarb. Looking forward to whatever the future brings…..

    Lastly, I found this from 1978 and can’t think of anything sensible to say about it.

    Surely if not illegal then certainly foolhardy. Having recently read themiddlesizedgarden blog about gardening trousers I shall be much more sensible in future.

    Thankyou for sticking with me so far and do subscribe in the box above if you would like my monthly blogs to pop into your inbox.  Happy gardening to everyone of every age.

    Best wishes, Julie

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    41 comments on "Gardening begins at 40 – I’m 67 now"

    1. Ian Barber says:
      2nd February 2019 at 8:18 am

      Many happy returns for your birthday!

      Great blog

      I became properly interested in gardening in my 30’s when I moved to London and all I had was a small balcony and a sudden desire to grow things!

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        2nd February 2019 at 10:35 pm

        Thankyou Ian. Yes I got great inspiration from that windowsill in the flat with the petunias. I’d never bothered before and I got the bug to grow things. So glad I did. Hope your balcony is bringing you lots of joy.

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    2. Fred says:
      2nd February 2019 at 8:32 am

      Happy birthday Julie! Thank you for sharing your photos. Your face has not changed since the first picture in B&W … I can recognize you ..

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        2nd February 2019 at 10:36 pm

        Oh Fred what a lovely thing to say. That’s so nice! Thanks for all your support with my blog and I hope I give the same to you on Saturdays. Best wishes.

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    3. Brenda Theodore-Marks says:
      2nd February 2019 at 8:41 am

      Loved that Julie! Happy birthday- have a wonderful day.

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        2nd February 2019 at 10:34 pm

        Hi Brenda, how lovely to hear from you and lovely to hear you’re reading my blog things. Love to you both.

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    4. Torrington Tina says:
      2nd February 2019 at 9:09 am

      I loved this blog and we share gardening heroes, my others are Rosemary Verey and Carol Klein, both of whom I was lucky to meet, and Christopher Lloyd. Their writings keep me going through winter months.
      A very Happy Birthday!

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        2nd February 2019 at 10:37 pm

        Wow lucky you meeting those people. I met John Brookes in his garden a few year ago and was so nervous and excited I could hardly get any words out. Gardeners are just great human being aren’t they.

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    5. Caz says:
      2nd February 2019 at 9:34 am

      Happy birthday

      Good luck with your new allotment venture

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        2nd February 2019 at 10:43 pm

        thankyou. Glad I dug it over and covered it with membrane a few weeks ago. Reading about what to plant but bit short of ideas as the moment. Thanks for your encouragement.

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    6. Jim Stephens says:
      2nd February 2019 at 9:54 am

      Both Sue and I were ’52 babies but you’ll not be getting a confessional from me on my birthday. We both made the (right) choice between god and gardening a little earlier in life but that did make me laugh. I’m just off to burn some photos. Have a very happy birthday.

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        2nd February 2019 at 10:45 pm

        Ah so we’re the same age. Isn’t it great to be better at something than teenagers are. They swank about with the phones but we know how to grow things. Hurrah for us. Keep those photos!!!!!!

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    7. Trevor Cooper says:
      2nd February 2019 at 10:29 am

      That’s lovely Julie
      Am delighted to make an appearance in that party photo on the sofa
      TrevX

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        2nd February 2019 at 10:33 pm

        Oh Hi Trev!!!! Yes who on earth were all those people. Some I don’t recognise at all. Lovely to hear from you – I’ve had a lovely day. Going to India in two weeks time Eeeeeeek.

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    8. Cindy Coghill says:
      2nd February 2019 at 12:12 pm

      I am very close to your age too and can identify with a lot of those photos. And who isn’t in love with Monty Don, even here in the USA. Well, for those of us who know who he is. We’re not as much a gardening country as you are, which is very sad.
      Happy Birthday. Make it a good one and garden on!!!

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        2nd February 2019 at 10:32 pm

        thank you so much Cindy for replying and glad we can share the love of Monty. And Nigel and Nellie of course.

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    9. Beverly says:
      2nd February 2019 at 12:46 pm

      Better late than never . Making up for lost time.

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        2nd February 2019 at 10:31 pm

        Never ever too late to garden I believe – as long as we can bend and kneel and twist. The best exercise isn’t it.

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    10. Kate says:
      2nd February 2019 at 1:28 pm

      What a brilliant post! Thank you for brightening a cold and windy day.

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        2nd February 2019 at 10:30 pm

        Thankyou Kate for saying so. It has been my most successful post so far which is a lovely birthday present for me.

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    11. June Lloyd says:
      2nd February 2019 at 2:06 pm

      Happy birthday! Good job you are not wearing that bikini in the garden today, you would certain tain ly die of exposure in minutes!

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        2nd February 2019 at 10:29 pm

        Oh goodness June, haven’t worn a bikini for 20 years or more. Perish the thought! It’s padded gardening trousers and a fleece nowadays!

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    12. Flighty says:
      2nd February 2019 at 2:12 pm

      A most enjoyable post, which made me smile. Happy birthday! xx

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        2nd February 2019 at 10:28 pm

        Oh thanks and the best news to hear it made you smile. That’s the point isn’t it.

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    13. Ronnie Tyler says:
      2nd February 2019 at 2:32 pm

      Happy birthday! How wonderful to have all those photos. I’m 6 months older than you and recognise your timeline. Words fail me for a caption to your lawn mowing/bikini photo 🤣🤣. I used to garden with my mum and took it up again when I was married with my own garden in 1975. Eldest daughter is a very keen gardener, daughter no. 2 less so, but there are glimpses of interest appearing, meanwhile I continue to be her unpaid gardener!

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        2nd February 2019 at 10:27 pm

        Lovely to hear this Ronnie and always nice to hear from you.

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    14. Patricia Maddock says:
      2nd February 2019 at 3:01 pm

      Happy Birthday, I hope you have a lovely day despite the cold weather.
      It was my 66th also ,only five days ago. Thank you for sharing your memories, I remember those times really well,and like you, often wished I had got the gardening bug earlier. Still, as they say, it’s never to late too learn!
      Best wishes,
      Pat

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        2nd February 2019 at 10:26 pm

        Never too late. Maybe gardening is best suited when we have more sense!

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    15. Chris Ashby says:
      2nd February 2019 at 10:05 pm

      Happy Birthday!
      Happy Gardening!

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        2nd February 2019 at 10:26 pm

        Thankyou!

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    16. Annne-Marie Brophy says:
      3rd February 2019 at 12:07 am

      Happy birthday Julie! I love your comment about God or gardening. I must tell my friend that as she has just hit 50, and has fallen madly, passionately for her new garden! I live in Victoria Australia, but I love hearing about your gardening adventures. You’d look perfectly normal in your bikini over here. 39 degrees today….

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    17. Barbara says:
      3rd February 2019 at 12:35 am

      Happy Birthday! You have such a beautiful garden.

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    18. March says:
      3rd February 2019 at 5:21 am

      Such a fun post, full of laughs. I think you’re looking just as sharp on your 67th as you did in that bikini! Perhaps you have found the fountain of youth?? Gardening?? Happiest of Birthdays.

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    19. Ali, The Mindful Gardener says:
      3rd February 2019 at 9:07 am

      I love your gardening style, and now I see that I love your style generally! Your pink satin shiny trousers are fabulous! It has struck me before when I have seen photos of your garden, and it is confirmed in these pictures that we share a gardening aesthetic. I LOVE your use of colour!!!

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        3rd February 2019 at 10:48 am

        Oh Ali how lovely of you to say so. Tell me more about YOUR use of colour. Everything in my life is full of colour. My house, garden, clothes, everything. I sit on the Tube and usually I am the only person not wearing black. It’s so dreary! Thanks for your lovely encouragement.

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    20. Jude says:
      3rd February 2019 at 1:34 pm

      Hope you had a fab birthday Julie. I am a little bit younger than you, but I recognise that timeline! What a wonderful way to record your gardening life! And the photo of you in the bikini – priceless! You were probably barefoot too 🙂 Love your colourful garden, it is so crammed with flowers just what I go for and I wish you every success with the allotment.

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    21. Lu de C says:
      3rd February 2019 at 3:51 pm

      Many happy returns of the day (yesterday) Julie and thank you for this lovely blog complete with wonderful photos. It’s fabulous that you like colour so much in every aspect of your life and I salute you! See you soon and enjoy these sunbeams…Lu

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    22. Anne Brooke says:
      5th February 2019 at 7:33 pm

      Happy belated birthday! Looking forward to reading more gardening adventures 🙂 The bikini lawnmower is TOTALLY cool!

      Anne B
      xxx

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        13th February 2019 at 8:35 am

        Thanks! A very long time ago!

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    23. Helen says:
      12th May 2021 at 8:25 am

      What a great blog post – you made tea come out of my nose; you’re one funny lady!

      And phew indeed!

      I really enjoyed your pictures and experiences! like you, I had a moment of clarity when I saw a Chelsea garden all in purples and whites. Having tried for three years to achieve anything similar in my grotty Leicestershire clay soil, I’ll accept my fate.

      Also, quite similarly, I’m often watching Monty Don and feeling just a tiny bit on love.

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      1. Julie Quinn says:
        12th May 2021 at 12:00 pm

        Hello Helen, great fun to read your comment, I feel so connected to all sorts of gardening people through my blog it really is a lovely part of my life. Surely clay can be great can’t it?? Is your soil really grotty? As for Monty, do you admit to a little thrill when Adam is on? Very best wishes, Julie

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